You’ve probably heard self-control described like a cage: “Be good. Hold it in. Don’t do that.”But Ifa (a wisdom tradition that focuses on alignment, character, and wise decision-making) frames self-control differently. Self-control isn’t restriction. It’s real freedom.Because when you have self-control, you have choices. And when you have choices, you’re not being dragged around by…
As the year comes to a close, many people rush to set goals based on outcomes:more money, better body, bigger opportunities, less stress. Ifa teaches something quieter—and far more powerful: Outcomes are unstable. Character is not. In Ifa wisdom, success isn’t measured only by what you achieve, but by who you become while pursuing it….
Passing the Torch, Not the Spotlight True mentorship isn’t about titles or being admired — it’s about being useful. In today’s world, “mentorship” often looks like brand collaborations and advice threads that go viral for a week and disappear the next. But in the tradition of Ifa, mentorship (ìmọ̀ràn àgbà) is sacred. It’s how knowledge…
When Giving Turns Into Performance There’s a certain kind of generosity that speaks louder than money ever could — the kind that doesn’t need applause. We live in a world where every good deed can be captured, hashtagged, and uploaded within seconds. Acts of service become content, and kindness becomes a currency for likes. But…
There’s a Yoruba proverb that says, “The wealthy person who hoards, hoards their peace as well.” In today’s world, “wealth” is often measured in digits, possessions, or how many zeroes show up after your name. But according to Ifa, wealth isn’t just about accumulation—it’s about circulation. Ifa teaches that when we hoard what we have,…
There’s nothing peaceful about chasing success that doesn’t feel aligned. Many entrepreneurs start their journey with good intentions — freedom, flexibility, impact. But over time, the pressure to “keep up” can replace the original purpose with pure survival mode. Ifa reminds us: “Àṣẹ without ìwà (good character) is chaos.” You can have strategy, followers, or…
The Crossroad Between Survival and Integrity We’ve all been there — stuck in a job that drains us, where silence feels safer than honesty, and paycheck feels heavier than peace. Leaving a toxic workplace is never easy. It challenges our sense of loyalty, our courage, and our character (Ìwà) — one of the cornerstones of…
When Life Feels “Off” Ever had a season where nothing feels right — you’re restless, comparing your journey to others, or feel stuck despite trying? Ifa teaches that these aren’t random emotions. They’re spiritual signals from your Ori (inner consciousness) showing you that you’ve drifted from your path. Recognizing these signs is the first step…
October is a month of transition. The days shorten, the air cools, and nature begins its slow preparation for rest. In times of change, it’s easy to lose focus, become overwhelmed, or fall into old habits that don’t serve us. Ifa reminds us that destiny unfolds step by step — but only when we are…
Purpose Is More Than a Job Title When most people hear “purpose,” they think of career: doctor, teacher, entrepreneur, healer. But in Ifa, destined purpose (ayanmo) runs deeper than a title or job. It is about alignment with your Ori (inner head, spiritual consciousness) and the character (Ìwà) you bring into every area of life….